Sexy Panties

Ladies we do not have to wear lace or nylon thong panties to be, look, or feel sexy. Sexy can also be comfortable and practical. Panties come in an assortment fabrics and styles.   The fabrics of panties are as follows: cotton, lace, microfiber, polyester, spandex and nylon, just to name a few. Choosing panties is a personal choice because there are many factors involved in what you want out of them. Cotton (can be found in organic) will help keep you dry and is breathable, in fact, many doctors will suggest you wear cotton panties to keep vaginal issues away. Panties made of synthetic material can be visually attractive with more intricate designs, but they are not breathable and hold moisture that can cause vaginal irritations. Another factor to consider when choosing panties is the cut or style of the panties. The styles are g-string, thong, cheeky, bikini, hipster, boy short, brief, high waist (control) brief and last but not least the crotch-less panty.

From what I hear from my friends and my personal experience cotton panties are far more comfortable, but choosing which panties to wear is dependent on the occasion. Going to the gym, working around the house, or going to work may warrant cotton panties of any style. Women also tend to wear cotton, mostly brief style, during that time of the month and typically don’t want our partners to see us in our dreaded cotton period panties. Going to dinner after work, date night, just because I feel like it, or sashaying around the house will warrant something a bit more visually appealing; like the boy short, bikini, cheeky g-string or thong. Thong and g-string panties are also the “go to” panties to be worn under certain clothing, like something that might be too see through or fitted.

The ultimate in sexy and for the more adventurous is the crotch-less panty. These panties will get a rise out of your partner and can add a little more excitement to your date. (Hint: don’t reveal that you are wearing them before the dinner date because you might not make it to your reservations.) Be creative with these, tell your partner in a text at dinner what you are wearing or say it in a whisper during the movie or on the ride home. 😉

There is a time and a place for all panty variations and it is up to you to determine when and where that is. Have fun with it.


Female Orgasms: 101

By definition, an orgasm is a climax of sexual excitement characterized by a feeling of pleasure centered in the genitals. For men, an orgasm is accompanied by an ejaculation, also referred to as cumming.  Some women can also achieve ejaculation and it is called squirting, though there is some belief that this is not possible.

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Though having an orgasm is common, there are some women that do not have them for various reasons. Outside of medical or psychological reasons, the following is a list of some reasons a woman may not have an orgasm:

  • Not enough foreplay. Foreplay helps to get things heated up and gets a woman’s vaginal juices flowing. Foreplay goes both ways and is not totally the man’s responsibility. Some women find that receiving foreplay is pleasurable and for others giving is what gets them most excited.
  • Lack of education about the vagina. Both parties should know the parts of the vagina and their function. Women need to figure out what feels good or not to those parts so that she can communicate that to her partner.
  • Lack of knowledge about a woman’s erogenous zones. The clitoris, g-spot, and breasts are the most common erogenous zones for women, but not all women get the same amount of pleasure from these zones. Some women have other zones that turn them on. A woman should be vocal about what turns her on or not.
  • Not enough stimulation to the clitoris. The clitoris is a small sensitive and erectile part of the female genitals at the anterior end of the vulva. Stimulation of the clitoris can be achieved by sexual position or with the help of a sex toy.
  • Women not taking responsibility for their orgasm. Know what you enjoy by self-exploring and communicate that to your partner. Learning what is sexually pleasurable can be achieved by watching sexual videos, doing online research, touching/stimulation or using sex toys. When it feels good, let him know so that he can help you achieve the big O.
  • Sex not lasting long enough. It takes time for women to reach a climax, which is why foreplay is so important. If a woman gets to the point of almost reaching an orgasm before intercourse begins, then she is likely to have an orgasm during sex. Men can also use penis rings or creams to help them last longer to increase her chances of achieving an orgasm.
  • Changing positions too frequently. Once sexual stimulation becomes pleasurable for the woman, changing positions will cause her to lose her building orgasm. Communicate to the man that your climax is building so that he knows what is working.

Sex is a beautiful thing, but sex with an orgasm is the best sex ever. These are some tips can help a woman achieve a mind blowing orgasm.

Happy Orgasms!!!

Still Taboo in 2016


My name is Kin. I am a mother, daughter, and a friend. I have always had a little bit of a wild streak. If something is different, then usually I am interested. When I was younger, I thought that I knew everything, as lots of youth. I can say for certain that I did know that I wanted to be an entrepreneur at a young age, and now it is a reality. I decided sometime in 2012 to open the online adult novelty store called The Klimax Spot ( My store provides a discrete shopping experience for those that wish to privately purchase products that are intimate in nature.

Opening my own business has been both rewarding and eye-opening. The best part about owning my own business is the fact that it is mine. As it grows, it makes me feel like I am doing something that is helping people in an intimate area of their lives. I sell what most people call sex toys. Don’t be fooled by that statement. I also sell countless other products can help enhance a person’s intimate life.  The eye-opening part of owning my own business for me is the fact that my company is viewed as taboo by some people because it is tied to sex.  A few weeks ago I learned the hard way just how taboo my business is while seeking a company to help me with marketing. I view my business as just a business. I didn’t realize that it would be that tough to find someone to help market my business.  I was repeatedly turned down by marketing firms. Let me get things straight; I don’t have some sleazy website that is doing something wrong. It is just a regular e-commerce store, at least in my opinion.

It amazes me that sex is still considered taboo in 2016, but at the same time, somehow it doesn’t. I am not going to get into the rights and wrongs about sex because we all have our beliefs about it one way or the other, and we are entitled to that. I feel that my company is more than just an online sex toy store.  I value your health and well-being.  I will be here sharing information about all things sex including health tips, latest technology, and so much more.

Thanks for visiting and welcome to The Klimax Spot.